Year of the tiger-lilly

Archive for April, 2010

Now, I don’t usually gossip especially since the walls have ears where I work. So, today I was one of the last people on the floor together with another guy — the same guy I used to flirt with: Playing the Game – and we started speaking frankly. The conversation turned to the females of the office. Now, I’m no stranger to “guy talk” seeing as most guys usually consider me ‘one of the guys’,  but this conversation still caught me off guard.

Basically, almost no one met his requirements. Every girl who didn’t spend copious amount of time in front of the mirror doing her hair/make-up and wore the latest fashion was just not interesting to him . Let’s not forget he also wants a girl with big boobs, so the “pretty” girls in the office didn’t score a perfect ten for that reason. To get back to the other girls who “fell short”, they were not only not his type, no, they were also gross. He imagined that the girls’ underwear were yellow with caked on body fluids or he’d imagine that they didn’t shower regularly. I wouldn’t know if it’s true or not, but his disapproval took me aback; it wasn’t just disapproval his reaction bordered on pure disgust. 

He’s not bad looking. He’s allowed to have some requirements, but goodness gracious, I went from liking him (as a person) to being completely turned off. He and the other guys of the office extensively discuss who they would or wouldn’t “do”, not a shocker, but the fact that he told me how he felt about most females in the office… I just felt awkward knowing a large group of men in in the office talk about the females amongst themselves and maybe in the same fashion this guy did.

I try not to get into the whole lumping men into groups, so I’ll just say that this guy was a complete let down. He was so disrespectful! There was no need to put down the women the way that he did. I guess I shouldn’t complain he’s not my boyfriend. Thank god!

It’s my first award! I haven’t been blogging for more than 4 months and I’ve already won an award! Well, actually I was nominated by Stomweblog, which makes this nomination slightly biased.

Now, I’m allowed to pass along the award to bloggers who I think to deserve it. These are the rules for passing along the Sunshine Award:

1. You must place the logo of the award in your article/ blog
2. Link back to the person who nominated you
3. Nominate as many bloggers as you like
4. Link to the nominated bloggers in your article/ blog
5. Let the nominees know they’ve been nominated by posting a comment on their blog

And now the drum roll for my nominees:

• Elocutio: Her blog is awesomeness; Games, Products, Music & More
• Live My Life Better: Because she’s a procrastinator just like me
• Sweet Cardigan: For important things like figuring out your Drunk Friend Level

I hope you enjoy reading these blogs as much as I do

I don’t know what’s happened to me but it’s gone from bad to worst. I was never the type to enjoy a nice bloody horror movie, but the occasional action flick was never really a problem. Lately, I can’t even get through a suspenseful scene in an action film let alone watch a horror movie. BF rented SawVI; he couldn’t get past the first 5 min, I probably wouldn’t get past the menu.

BF rented The Hurt Locker this weekend, it was supposed to be our “watch it together film”, well that didn’t turn out to be the case. I couldn’t care less that it won 6 academy awards, I’d have to sit through 2 hours of watching people getting blown up; no, thank you. I kissed BF goodbye and sat behind my PC and played Sims3. You’re probably thinking to yourself: “well you knew about the *boom* before you rented the DVD, didn’t you?” Well, I thought to myself: “I’ve got The Soloist, so let BF have something he’ll enjoy.”

*sigh* I’m not quite sure how I’m going to get over this scaredy-cat complex, but I feel it’s limiting me in the movies that I can watch and if a couch potato like me can’t even enjoy movies anymore, what reason do I have left to live? [/dramaqueen]

He’s been hinting at it… Every time the M-word comes up, he puts out his feelers checking for my reaction. So, after dating for a year; living together for another and having an overall easy-going relationship: Why wouldn’t I just say yes? Read the rest of this entry »

The following post is explicit and contains sexual content if you are squeamish about sex/porn do not continue reading… Read the rest of this entry »